Sunday, July 28, 2013

Catnip for Narcisissists

This is a very interesting discussion about Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Huffington Post. I just happened on it, but it struck me that many D/s relationships might have this sort of problem, just by the very nature of Dominance and Submission itself.

I know there are plenty (and perhaps a concentrated number) of "broken" people who are in the D/s lifestyle; people who have suffered from sexual abuse, mental abuse, etc. This seems that these people might be like catnip to narcissists: People who need to have someone worship them, for example.

I am not saying that all dominants are narcissists, but I bet a good number of them are. Just like those who are abusers and rapists.

Anyway, watch this and tell me what you think.

Tuesday, July 9, 2013

Back on Point

So things seem to be back to nearly normal for Felix and me. I had to start some drama...act like an asshole with all the hollering and threats and general ass-holishness to get him to straighten up. That is not me, and I get very distressed when I have to act all crazy to snap him out of it.

Some of you may remember that I had to do the same thing to snap him out of the winter SAD (Season Affect Disorder). Do I have to be an asshole both in the summer and the winter?

I am going on vacation (Las Vegas) all by myself, and I hope that with regular phone chats I will be able to keep Felix steady without having to go all ghetto on his ass again. Honestly, he is so lucky that I love him and will hang in with him.