A Thousand Kisses Deep

My Felix gave me this song as a gift, a gift I will always treasure. (Felix "gets me." That is rare, but it is what makes him my best friend.)
The bonus is a new version of Leonard Cohen's poem, "A Thousand Kisses Deep."

Felix, you are such a treasured friend. You are indeed My Man. I love you a thousand kisses deep.

Resources for Questioning Dommes Updated.

Calling attention to updated resource list here: Resources for the Questioning Domme. Be sure to send me links to more quality resources you know of. The intent is to provide a valuable resource to beginners in dominating, such as myself.

My Ideal Submissive Man

Lately, I have read a lot of articles and interviews on various blogs, where women describe their ideal submissive man. I predict that many men would be surprised at the answers. I know that many men have no idea, because they approach women in the wrong manner so often, and then can't understand why they are smacked down. (That might be a different topic.)

Femme Domme: Femininity and Finding One's Dominance

This is a post I wish I had written. Now go there and read this. Now.
http://lipstickandligature.wordpress.com/2012/08/05/femme-domme-femininity-and-finding-ones-dominance

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My eye is on the prize

In two weeks our youngest child goes back to college. Middle son just got a promotion at work, so he can still afford his apartment. Oldest daughter just took a new job on the other coast.

In two weeks my husband and I will experience our first ever empty nest! If nothing happens to wreck it for us (Please don't get fired, kids!) we will finally achieve our first goal of the home stretch...all kids grown and gone! We aren't going to know how to act! Sex in the living room! Naked cooking! Sole possession of the remote! Our own money! Quiet! No rap music!

We will also have the chance to start experimenting and implementing some of the things we have been discussing lately. We have always been kind of reticent about sharing some of our kinky fantasies, even though we both know that we are open to trying most anything. It's strange, isn't it, that it is often harder to share your most intimate feelings and fantasies with the person you are closest to, than with a stranger? Well, we have lately, in anticipation of being on our own in our home, been sharing long-held desires with each other and making plans to carry them out.

For my part, I am anxious to start a concious and consistent regimen of husband-centered chastity, tease and denial. Our previous efforts have been pretty haphazard. But now we are going to be more purposeful. For instance, I am going to be in charge of the viagara pills, and use them as a reward. And I also plan to begin daily teasing and denial. I am also going to perfect my edging skills with practice and feedback. Of course, hubby will be getting a lot of practice honing his cunnilingual skills...though he's already an artiste!

Here's to keeping our eyes on the prize!