Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Pegging

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I was doing some research on pegging, since I am gradually introducing subby hubby to anal play. He is kind of squeamish, but I want to nudge him along. I found this article about pegging for beginners. I wonder if anyone has an opinion about the quality of this information.

http://www.filamentmagazine.com/2011/05/a-beginners-guide-to-pegging/
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4 comments:

  1. Victoria VistaSeptember 18, 2012 at 9:51 PM

    This is a good article for beginners. Covers the basics. Anal play with the fingers and eventually butt plugs is a good way to get your sub partner accustom to the invasion of their back door. :) And a lot of communication!

    Hopefully your sub partner is familiar with the workings of his anus and will help to guide you. Some openings can be very tight! Starting out with the smooth smaller dildo is good and slowly, over time, work up to larger sizes if needed and desired.

    My favorite position is when they are on their back, legs up! I can see the expression on their face and have access to their balls and cock! Wonderful fun!!! Have a great adventure!

    ~ Vista

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  2. UnknownSeptember 21, 2012 at 10:43 AM

    Please forgive the simplicity of my question, but do women have fantasies about this?

    I can understand submissive guys fantasizing about this all day, but do you ladies really think about doing this? May I ask what the attraction is? I'm not judging here, just wanting to know.

    I had a girl friend in college who said to me one night: "I wish I could go inside of you. I would like to see what it is like."

    I had no idea about dildos and pegging, etc... and just let it slip away. Often wish I had been able to say: "Well there is a way..."

    I don't think she did either but it seemed to me that she was thinking some or all of the following: 1) turn about is fair play 2) I want to feel the control of penetrating you and 3) I want that feeling of 'ownership' that could come from this.

    As a male who worships women in general and the one I am with especially, I have never felt 'ownenship' or 'control' from penetration and I feel more of the opposite based on being surrounded, invited in as a guest to visit, and being 'engulfed'.

    Just wanted to know.

    Sincerely,
    Surrenedered hubby

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  3. MsNaydiSeptember 21, 2012 at 9:10 PM

    Thanks, Vista!

    SH, I think there are a WHOLE lot of women who like the idea of pegging a man for various reasons. I like it myself, because it is, frankly, hot. It is something that makes a woman like me feel more dominant. It is a kind of a sadistic turn on, too, especially if the man is kind of resistant. I also enjoy gay porn. I think seeing two men together...sodomy...is hot. I have always been titillated by the thought of two men having sex together. Hard to explain, but I know I am not the only woman who feels this way. That is why I love to see a big strong muscular man head down and ass up! Ready for me to TAKE him!

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  4. UnknownSeptember 22, 2012 at 3:13 PM

    (Deep southern accent while I fan myself)
    "Oh Ms. Naydi!
    Why I do declare woman you are giving me the vapors!"

    It seems a submissive male's ultimate fantasy that a WHOLE LOT of women are thinking about bending him over and 'taking him' like that...

    Sincerely
    Surrendered hubby

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